Deprive a \”swingle\” of his expected playtime and he shall return for more. At least, that seemed to be the case this week.
On our regularly scheduled Tuesday date, I was not up to playing, so we watched a movie and the men played a video game. To make up for the lack (and/or because SwingBot got BG addicted to the game), we arranged for a maybe-maybe-not play date for Thursday. We went out for dinner, returned home, and the men played more of the game while I drew for a while. I sometimes took breaks from hunching over my desk to watch them play.
I marvel over the casualness of it all. My drawing time has suffered due to the sex — the play dates, the blogging, the reading of other sex blogs, discussing on forums — and I have never drawn with BG around before. I often found focusing on the art difficult lately, opting to instead go masturbate or view a sex site, though I genuinely enjoy drawing. I finally did more drawing this past week than I have done in the past two months! And I even was able to focus last night on it with the temptation of SwingBot and BG combined right there.
That is not to say that the excitement is gone. No, just that my passions are balancing better, permitting hobbies like art to share my attention with my high interest in sex and its related activities. I always go overboard on a new hobby or interest, before it eventually balances to fit better with my existing ones. Swinging, or at least our current approach to it, has started to settle comfortably with my other pursuits.
Again, this is not to say that the enthusiasm or lust has faded. After I stopped drawing for the evening and the men stopped their game, we three had to decide what to do next. SwingBot\’s sensible concerns for my health translated into doubt that we should try playing. However, BG and I both were horny and less prudent, and it was two against one. To the bedroom we trooped.
We bound BG so that he stood spread-eagle. We do this a lot; it seems to work well. I was mostly less rough than usual, enjoying the mind game of making him wonder whether the next touch of the mouth would be painful or gentle. I also spanked him a little, and found that to be rewarding. SwingBot has a very spankable bottom, but he can take — and wants — much harder than my hand can offer! BG\’s tush is much more sensitive; my hand did not have to hurt itself to elicit the desired response. (Poor SwingBot; we need to find him a tougher partner that can suit his needs better than I.)
While I focused on BG\’s front, particularly on his cock, SwingBot gave me incentive to stay in one place, rather than move around as I had been doing. He rubbed his erection against my ass and cunt. I responded by making myself still, balanced, and bent with my backside openly accessible. SwingBot rewarded me by penetrating my cunt with his cock and proceeding to fuck me. All three of us standing during Spit-Roast is new, as is SwingBot being behind me and BG being in front for that position. BG\’s hands started a warning tingle, so we interrupted coitus, moved him to the bed, and stripped him completely of the gear.
BG took advantage of his new freedom by sucking on SwingBot\’s cock. SwingBot lay back and I focused on his mouth and neck, particularly licking and lightly sucking on his neck, which is highly arousing to both of us. When BG\’s jaw muscles got sore, we returned to the Spit-Roast, though on the bed this time. BG lay back for a B.J. while SwingBot did me in Doggie Style. The two climaxed surprisingly in sync; porn studios would be proud. We all three collapsed onto the bed, SwingBot spooning me and I spooning BG.
BG eventually fell asleep, but SwingBot and I rose and dressed. BG goes to bed late and rises early; no wonder our dates wear him out so often. Still not knowing how to gently wake BG, I lightly tickled him until he woke and dressed. He noted, \”I had only one orgasm this time.\” I gave him a difficult time about complaining. He is right, though; most play dates give him three. However, it was late, so we sent him home… though not before making tentative plans for a Saturday date.
So, no sex on Tuesday led to a Thursday date, and just one orgasm on Thursday led to a Saturday date. As we get more casual, the lack of cumming has BG coming for more.