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  • Flaming Is The New Closeted

    Guest entry by SwingBot.

    So, I have this side-job that I work on the weekends, in a field that is closely related to my primary hobby. Working this job pretty much IS my hobby, except now I get paid to do it. That\’s pretty cool and all, but it does mean that I have co-workers who aren\’t exactly in my inner circle of friends. Don\’t get me wrong; they\’re great guys! But they know nothing about this blog or my participation with any of the topics discussed herein. It\’s not that it\’s a secret, per se; it\’s just that it\’s not any of their business, and they would be… what\’s the word? Oh, yeah, \”horrified\”… they\’d be horrified to know that I\’m not as straight-and-narrow as they are.

    Which brings me to this amusing series of conversations last weekend!

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  • Competitive Gang-Bang

    SwingBot, KOH_HCl, and I all share at least one sexual fantasy: all three of us would like to see me be the center of a gang-bang at some point. As part of the fantasy, my being on the center does not mean that I am the only one who receives, though.

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  • I Can Change Him

    I recently had the humbling realization that I have long been harboring the cliche arrogance of \”I can change him.\”

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  • Adventures in Stalking CollegeCrush

    This past week has been quite a rollercoaster ride of emotions, preceded by nearly two decades of uncertainty.

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  • Gay Avengers

    As a break from my ranting, enjoy some fun news.

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  • Bisexuality Is Not A Checklist, So Stop Treating It Like One

    I think this is my last rant for a while. I realize that this has not been an active year for this blog and that most of my posts over the past two years have been rants, which are not generally sexy. That said, this is another rant.

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  • Bisexuality Is Not A Checklist

    Typically, when people argue the \”slut\” label often attached to the label \”bisexual,\” they state, \”Bisexuality is not polyamory.\” This is true, but I think fails to address the bigger point that bisexuality is not a checklist.

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  • Pansexual And Queer Are Not Superior to Bisexual

    This is not going to be popular, and may even be deemed offensive by some. I am not trying to insult or be incendiary. That said, this is genuinely my opinion.

    I think that the common, modern uses of the terms \”pansexual\” and \”queer\” are often employed to solve a problem that does not exist: that \”bisexual\” is too limiting. Some argue that the \”bi\” in \”bisexual\” means that a bisexual person can only be attracted to men and to women, not to more fluid dynamics.

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  • Woman Is Home for Man\’s Penis

    Last week, I read a friend\’s blog in which he noted that too-influential-crazy-person Mark Driscoll preached that each woman is made by Driscoll\’s god as a home to some particular man\’s penis. Yes, really. In case you have not read the excerpt, it is quite full of loopy.

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  • Hating Bisexuals

    Huh. I just realized that hating bisexuals is an extension of misogyny and phallic worship.

    \”Exsqueeze me?\” you ask incredulously. It may seem odd, but follow me for a moment. Please excuse the sweeping generalizations and crude stereotypes along the path.

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