When deciding to get into swinging, we signed up for multiple sites, some based on search results and some based on recommendations. One site that we did not try, despite having it recommended to us, was CraigsList.
Category: Swinging
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SpareParts Joque Harness
Disclaimer: No one sent us this harness, financially supported Week Bi Week, or otherwise paid for this review.
Pegging is fun. SwingBot and I both enjoy when I fuck him with a toy. However, I do not do it nearly enough for either of us and, when I do get out a toy, I often just manipulate the toy with my hands. Now, I love to use my hands. I get to see SwingBot flat on his back, or bent over, and watch the work I do and his reactions. I get to stay in control, often even staying dressed, which gives me a special thrill. Still, being able to actually pound him, thrusting with my hips, is a lot of fun.
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Fever Sex
I think it was about a month ago that I shared the Dick And Jane Temperature Play post with SwingBot. He found the idea of having sex with a sick partner, just for the sake of playing with temperature, a little bizarre. I figured that he might change his mind if we ever had the chance when I was sick, but still okay enough for sex, and he was healthy.
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Make You Work for It
I need to learn how to create a romantic mood… or at least a sexy one. What is the right atmosphere for getting two heteroromantic bisexual men to boff… particularly when the woman present feels unattractive and plans to stay dressed and just watch?
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Playing Solo Again
This Tuesday, SwingBot was once again unavailable for playtime, this time due to working that evening. We still kept the date, anyway. The three of us had dinner and watched a movie that both SwingBot and BG had previously seen, but I had not. After finishing dinner, SwingBot left for work and BG and I continued to watch the movie through its end.
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Sleep Sex
I love sleep sex, but am not a rewarding person with whom to try it. Apparently, I sometimes respond to advances with slaps, kicks, and/or making some grumpy noise while turning away. Other times, I might seem to be awake and even respond favorably, but still be asleep for quite a while. So, I do not actually wake enough to appreciate what is happening until a lot of work has already been done, unnoticed. There were a few times that I woke to find SwingBot fucking me, I commented it was a great way to wake, and he replied with dismay and annoyance, \”What about all that oral I just did on you?\”
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Vanilla Ice Cream
BG provided a lovely summary of this Tuesday\’s threesome and I posted it (with his permission) on Wednesday. Here are some additional notes that I have from the evening.
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BG\’s Perspective
Since play dates can run late and BG has a half-hour drive (after wearing himself out), we agreed that he sends a \”home safe\” message when he gets home. This morning, his \”home safe\” message surprised me with a write-up of last night. BG agreed to let me post it, and I thought his perspective to a play date would make an interesting entry. The following are his words:
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Wednesday Play
We rescheduled this week\’s play date from Tuesday to Wednesday. Poor BG; not only did he have to wait an extra week for play (since we canceled last week), but then he had to wait one more day, on top of that!