Week Bi Week

Category: BDSM

  • One True Way

    One concept I see frequently come up in discussions of polyamory and BDSM is that of the \”One True Way.\” I do not see that phrase much in conversations on swinging, probably because the topic, \”Should single men be allowed to even exist?\” consumes so much bandwidth.

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  • Flogging Class And Affirmations

    SwingBot and I finally dragged ourselves to The CSPC on Saturday. We last tried over a year ago, planning to attend a rope bondage course. The drive there was so stressful, followed by our inability to find a parking spot (partially because the place was busy, but partially because we did not know what were legitimate spaces), that we gave up and simply drove back home. That wasted round trip took two to three hours.

    With a commute like that, visiting The CSPC is not a light undertaking for people who dislike driving.

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  • Bound Nude Sketch

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    References are for weenies and subs!

    I am a domly Domme! I can bend anatomy and perspective to my will!

    Well, I like the torso and butt, anyway. I knew I should have stopped with those.

  • Poison

    I sometimes see the question asked: \”At what age did you discover/realize that you were kinky/poly/bisexual/etc.?\”

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  • BDSM Quiz Results

    Because what online journal is complete without a pointless post of quiz results?

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  • Fantasy: With You Bound

    Your arms are raised, shackled to the ceiling. You stand upright with your legs apart, immobilized by the spreader bar locked on your ankles. A blindfold covers your eyes and a bit-gag fills your mouth. Reins dangle down your back from the bit-gag, while a leash dangles down your front from the wide collar on your neck.

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  • Three Seconds Early

    On Monday night, I went to SwingBot and snapped the blue collar around his neck. He stopped what he was doing and went to take a shower. During his shower, I made sure that I had ready access to most of the items that I felt I would want, and then slipped into a crotchless, black, lace body stocking with a low-cut neck. When he came into the bedroom, I greeted him by sitting him on the bed and applying a blindfold.

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  • Fantasy: Pleasure Bound

    You look good, lying spread-eagle and face-up, your wrists and ankles bound in the leather cuffs that are bound to the bed and your neck bearing the leather collar. Much as I want to see the fear-tinged lust in your eyes, the blindfold suits you so well. You cannot see, of course, as my gaze sweeps over the rest of your body, which is naked save for those six bits of leather.

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  • Recharging My Sense of Touch

    Warning: This is very long. I probably should have split it into separate posts, but here it is, in all its wordy glory.

    Two weeks ago, the planets aligned in such a way to tell me, \”No sex for you!\” I responded with frustration and two less-than-fulfilling masturbation sessions. Then SwingBot fucked me in the shower and got me excited again. Eagerness renewed, I tried masturbating again, and still found a lack of success. Then the next two nights were filled with success… for me, anyway.

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  • Human Bolster

    I rely upon these threesome play dates too much. My body truly trembled slightly in anticipation — not nerves, but excitement — this Sunday night and Monday night. This week is not the first time that I have trembled while anticipating a play date, either. Am I becoming an addict?

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