Apparently, October is Cuddle Month; it has been for me, anyway. SwingBot and I have spent more weekends cuddling together on the couch this month than we typically do in a season, and last night turned into one more cuddle session.
I heal slowly and am on the mend from a recent minor procedure. So, we opted to take the safe route last night and not play, but we still kept the date. BG arrived, we went out for dinner, and then the men played video games while I flopped around like the drugged sleepy-head that I was. I particularly liked when I lay stretched out on the couch, my hip pressed against BG\’s back and SwingBot\’s butt within my grabbing range.
Eventually, we opted to switch to watching an old horror movie — from when horror movies were more psychological than slasher — and cuddle on the couch. I had anticipated cuddling both men, but it was not to be. One of my dogs leapt upon the couch and formed a wedge, pushing BG and me to one side and SwingBot to the other. So, BG and I cuddled while a confused SwingBot petted the dog. I refused to not have any SwingBot-contact and stretched my legs on either side of the dog and to SwingBot, so one leg was behind his butt and the other was in his lap. My upper half leaned against BG, and my medication-wearied self was content.
After the movie, BG and I did kiss and grope a bit; I think that he finds it as addictive as I do. SwingBot kept reminding us, \”No arousal,\” which — this is going to sound unbelievable — was not a danger for my lower half. My mind was interested, my mouth hungry, my arms and hands eager, but my waist down was indifferent. After BG left, SwingBot and I went to bed, and SwingBot revealed that he had an erection. After some encouragement, he masturbated a bit for me, and I was appreciative, but, again, my lower half unresponsive. This lack of response in the lower half is a first for me, and I fully credit the medication that I took with dinner.
We scheduled a maybe-play-maybe-not date for Thursday; the official purpose is for more video game playing. I hope that I get a bit more cuddle time — without the dog this time — and that I am up for more than cuddling.