SwingBot and I have rarely had anal sex (me receiving) in the past. It generally required a lot of care and caution. Typically, I was feeling horny and overly ambitious. I would impulsively mount him and then realize that we had to be careful and move gently.
When MMF/MFM threesomes became a possibility, Double Penetration was part of the plan. BG\’s slimmer penis fit better and anal sex went from something I rarely received to… if not quite commonplace, then pretty close. All three of us enjoy DP. Since DP is an option — if not an actuality — for almost any play date, I have taken to keeping myself prepared. Masturbation is now routine (almost daily) and includes three toys: anal, vaginal, and clitoral.
SwingBot and I discovered on Monday night that this has resulted in some helpful loosening of my anus. As we prepared for bed, he told me that he had read my blog post about New Year\’s Eve. He had not been present while BG fucked my ass and we had not discussed the play date afterwards (instead falling asleep), so the blog entry was how he first learned of that (huzzah for blogging).
We had a brief conversation, reaffirming his comfort with this. Some couples get possessive about anal sex, and I think that BG has fucked my ass in the past five months more often than SwingBot has in the past ten years. It is not intended as an insult to SwingBot, but simply a reflection of what is physically feasible. He understands and accepts this.
Well, he might not have to, anymore. Talking about sex and his recent sickness-induced dry spell made SwingBot horny. He played with my cunt a little, including giving me the \”two-finger trick,\” which never fails to make me orgasm. With me on my back, my legs up against him, he lubed his cock and slid easily into my wet cunt. We fucked for a while that way, which felt great. Then he slid out, readjusted, and then slid inside my ass with surprising ease. We were both pleased with the development and continued in that position for a bit.
He knows me well, though, and knew that I would still want vaginal attention. I got onto my stomach while he got a vibrator for me. He first inserted the vibrator into my cunt, and then returned his cock to my ass. The base of the vibrator nestled against his balls, and he commented on enjoying the vibration. Vibration generally does not do much for him, so this was another nice surprise.
Much as I wanted this successful anal experience to last, I felt somewhat uncomfortable, not in the typical \”his cock is too much\” way that has challenged us in the past, but with a general discomfort. I think it was just the fact that I was coming down with the cold that had plagued him the last week. I warned him that I would not be able to last long, enjoying the sex as I was, and he obliged by cumming quickly.
So, my routine masturbation-maintenance for DP seems to have loosened me enough so that SwingBot and I have another option. Now I just need to make him practice with toys more often, so we can loosen him sufficiently for a good pegging!